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so i've been through many friendships and it all turns out the same. I listen to friend A talk about their life, their issues, and their boyfriend troubles and give them advice and they thank me a lot. But whenever I need someone there to listen to me, they either zone out, or half way through, give me a comment on what to do and then get tired of hearing about it?
i don't know where to find those people that will listen to me too and won't mind hearing about my relationship issues, you know? everytime I talk about some one I like or am interested in they ask "how is john" like "so how are you" expecting a one word comment, like "good."
I'm 19 and i don't know, if these people are taking advantage of me or what? And why do I always meet these kinds? It seems everyone is like this?
Most people are scared to try to solve a problem and come out with the wrong response and make it worse. It's also very hard to find people that will actually try to help others in need just for the sake of being nice. You are one of the few nice people that are willing to help and should be proud not angry that that you helped and they don't help back. They saw you as help and now you need go out and LOOK for one that can help you as you did for them. I feel that way a lot but understand that most people are either scared to try or selfish. These are the most common people in the world. Good luck looking for a helpful companion. Bonus Question for Tutuzdad::
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Most people are users. Do not tolerate this behavior and move on if they are looking for a one sided relationship.
Good Luck!
having friends isn't worth it they are just takers
don't you meen why? mabye you have suckish friends!
Well your an awesome person, who can listen to people. Others are selfish, and don't know how to listen.
judging by your wordy question maybe you should make your stories shorter and they would listen
or you just make friends that aren't interested in other people
I know what you mean... it drove me so crazy how I always helped my friends, then they would just ignore me. I helped my one friend out of suicide! (gun to his head and all) doesn't give me the time of day and tells ME to stop "bitching" about my "little" problems.This helped me a bit, to at least understand people...hope it does you. There are only a few out there like me and you who seem to give a damn.
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your the "monkey in the middle" to them hun.
i know that doesnt sound like a good senario, but its what you are.
You honestly can sit there and call them friends when they dont listen to you?!?
i know what that is like, honestly these girls sound completely fake.
friends are there to help, you sound like to help just a little too much.
what you need to do is STOP this and just dont be there for them anymore.
its obvious they DONT care about YOUR life at all, so why call them friends?
stop being the monkey in the middle, and yes hun you ARE getting taken advantage of. absoulutly!
stop this, this is terrible behavior to you.
you seem like a good person, find meaningful friends or you will regret it.
good luck
Trust me Honey. I have been through the same thing during age of 14 to 20 yrs and it sucks big time. I learnt a great deal.
You are a very nice person who is ready to help your friends regardless. Others are not as good as you. They do not want to put an effort in friendship. I don't say they are bad but less dedicated. I changed myself after a long time. When I became friends with others I waited first to see how good are they and expected less. If they were there for me I was there for them. This way I could find my real friends. When you make yourself easily available people tend to take advantage. Limit your efforts you won't be hurt but you will find real good friends and hold on to them. Yes people are taking advantage of you!
Good Luck sweety !
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Where am i always there for people, but they are never there for me?