What helps/helped you move on?
If you had the chance to contact them would you, or would you leave well alone?
How do you know/ did you know that you aren't/weren't over that person?
If you have been in a couple of relationships since the break up and suddenly one day it all comes flooding back, are there some issues to be dealt with or is it just a temporary insanity?
I just no longer think about this person. I will have fallen in love with someone else, where I don't even think about them. Or, I will have found a new hobby that I can do, where this person never comes across my mind. If they happen to one day, then I will have to change my mind, just a little..
I think that all relationships - be it bad or good can leave us emotionally damaged- and things often do come back to haunt us when certain things remind of us them
I dont really think Id bother contacting an ex, unless we ended on good terms and I maybe came across them on bebo or something, but if it were a bad breakup then no I wouldnt even want to contact them
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moving on means not looking back at old relationships,just learn from them and try not to make the same mistakes.but once in a while those feelings for the ex pop up with no reason at all.at that point you need to get busy,do something to get it off your mind.it is temporary and will go away.so let time do the healing and look ahead.
right well they say it takes half the relationship to get over them e.g. going out 2 years, takes 1 year to be completly over them but that can depend on how the relationship went!
i would not want to to talk to my ex until i know i wont want her again. you know when that happens, well i did, i honestly felt something go through me, i was at work and i thought i was over this girl then i say next to some girl who was wearing the exect same purfume and it came flooding back, i went to get a drink, and whilst i was sitting there by my self i actually felt like a wave go through me and i was over her...it was very strange! lol.
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Don't listen to songs which you listened to together...even if they are your faves. It's hard but in time you will be able to listen to them and look back on your relationship fondly without wanting to get back with the person... tried and tested!!!
just think its there loss and go out and enjoy yourself and stay single 4 a while
getting over someone is an awful experience !!it's no piece of cake ! but such is life !! you will have to go through what we call The Stages of Grief ( shock -denial-anger-resolution ) .years down the road, im sure she will still cross your mind and it'll hurt! but time is a good healer .. my advice is to fill ur free time.do things you always wanted to do ,and get to know others ...it's not the end of the world ..and maybe it's better the way it is ,maybe you deserve better ..
This what help me move on.I was with this person for 8 years didn't cheat,he cheat on me.I forgive him,I loved his mother and most of the people in his family.One day over the phone he told me he didn't want to see me anymore.He never said why or anything,he hang the phone up.Right there I decided he wasn't a good person or deserve my love.So it hurt, I ask Jesus to take away the pain,and he did.Its been two years I never tried to get into contact with him. I changed my phone number a week,after he told me he didn't want to be with me anymore.I didn't want him to call me and realize the mistake he made.He knew what kind of person I was, I was good to him and his family.I deserve to be with a hero not a zero.
I have been in a couple of relationships since my big break up with my first boyfriend. And to tell you the truth, it's hard when things remind me of him. It IS really weird though cause I feel temporarily insane. I think of calling him and asking him out for coffee.. With me, there's always that "What if we had stayed together" that still haunts me to this day, cause we both agreed that we rushed to end it.
I just think about how happy I am now, and the insanity goes away:)
I think I finally realized that i was over him when I didnt have to check up on him anymore... I'll explain. He has facebook and so do i. and I was constantly going to his page and looking at his pictures. I think this made it WAY harder for me to get over him. Thankfully i've gotten over that and I dont even need him as a friend anymore.
I dont think i would ever contact my ex, he's way too messed up. haha. It's a long story.
Thanks for the question, it just made it even more clear to me how over him I really am:)
Definitely I wouldn't keep in touch with my ex, and personally i think it is unhealthy to keep in touch with your ex because it is not going to help you to move on unless you are totally over it. You would realise that you are over that person when you don't care/mind that your ex is going out with someone else. And i personally think, past is past, we can never turn back the time to fix/deal with it
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