I have multiple genital piercings and tattoos which had I had done while I was married. I had them for about about 5 years now and my ex wife loved them but and since the divorce I met only a few women that were okay with them in the past 2 years. The ones I met before had piercings and tattoos themselves so in the beginning we talked about theirs and then discussd mine. It seems to me like these women are rare. Either my approach is wrong or they are just not into it. I was told by friends to let women know right away so you don't waste their time but when I do that they don't get to know me and run since genital piercings are not in the norm. So I would like to know what women really think of genital piercings? Should I change me and conform so women don't run? What is the best way to approach women about the subject? Your input will help me decide if I should remove them and conform or leave them in and just be me.
My boyfriend has had his done for a while now. When we use to have sex it would get in the way a lot and made it more painful but it wasn't so bad that I would have ever asked him to take it out. If you like your piercing keep it in. It's mostly just up to you if you want to wait for a girl who likes it or take it out so you have more options.
I dont "like" them as such, but i certainly dont mind them. Ive never been with a man who has them so i cant say for certain, but i actually dont think it would bother me. I love tattoos though!
I think you should remove that,no women wants that in them,but if you got a tongue ring keep that.
Like they say, "different strokes for different folks"
I personally would rather not have pieces of metal prodding me unless I have an appointment with a gynacologist for a pap smear. Another thing might be the hygienic aspect of it, or the high probability of getting a torn condom during sex. No thanks, but for your sake I hope you find someone who'll appreciate it.
I think they are creepy, but I wouldn't change, because alot of women like them. You don't have to change.
Personally and without meaning any offense I would be worried about the hygiene and also worry that the piercing may tear me and there would be no way that I could relax and I would imagine this could be a concern for other women. I'm certainly not going to tell you whether or not you should remove them only you can decide that, I hope you find someone compatible in the near future.
I'm obviously a woman, and I cringe at the thought of such things. I never had a lover who had them, and I would never have such a lover. You should tell women about your piercings. If you told me, I'd say "Arriverderci" (Goodbye) at once. If you showed me in bed, I'd leave. You can surely find some women who like them, but probably not many. Be yourself, but be your best self. Think about whether you really want such things that repel many women and why you want them.
Personally I think its pretty hot... As long as its clean. I just like stuff like that, I want my you know, pierced.. I just really do lol.
But um I want 12 tattoos and tatts turn me on as well
gross
What happens when it gets infected and your knob drops off?
I'm all about tattoo's and piercings. I've had several myself, BUT....there is just something really unsanitary about a genital piercing to me.
I'm a woman, and I find them disgusting.
But uh, don't let Y!A help you decide to change yourself. If you like them, leave them in.
Not my cup of tea personally but each to their own.
I think you should stay as you are, these piercings are obviously a strong part of your personality and you shouldn't change for anyone.
If women are making a quick get away when they find out well it's their loss really isn't it? there is no point being with someone who doesn't accept you is there? because as soon as she finds out she is likely to ditch you anyway and if you have formed an attachment by then it's likely to be more hurtful then if she left in the beginning.
So don't change, wait for the right woman who will accept you for who you are, piercings and all.
Guys: Do you think lower back tattoos are sexy on a woman?
A way to healthy looking skin?
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