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Before people go and judge, this is very hard for me but I wanted a few opinions off people, preferably people that have been through this.
I have five children age 10, 8, 4, 3 and 6 months. Four from previous relationships (two dads) and one with my current partner. Please no sarky comments about that either!
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My 3 and 4 year old children live with their Father (27/28) who for the record is NOT a good Dad and has recently had a baby with a 17 year old child, but anyways. He does not allow me contact with my son and daughter, I haven't seen them since last August. I have been seeing a solicitor about this for over a year but they have been messing me about and it still has not gone to court. In the mean time, my kids are growing up (they were 1.5 and 3 last time I saw them) not knowing who I am, and I have only seen them twice when I have been on a bus and they have been on the street.
Anyways, My partner, other three children and I have been thinking about moving house to live in Swansea, Wales nearer my partners family. (We are currently in the West Midlands.) The main reason I am hanging around here is on the off chance that I may be able to see my two children, which I see as unlikely. Even when it does go to court it's not as though I will get custody, I would have to have a lot of contact built up to fight for that. I have mentioned this to a few friends including my Step-Mom and they all say I should concentrate on us five and move on with our lives. To let him bring them up (send cards etc) and when they are older they can contact me. I don't want them growing up thinking I don't care, or have given up on them. But also I have my other three children that I need to think about.
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Do I stay in a place where there are a lot of bad memories for us all (there is more to this story but it isn't really relevant!) and not many family or friends near to us for the off chance I might "one day" see my other two children, or do I think about us and move nearer family?
This thing usually happens to Fathers, which I do not agree with, I am just hoping for some insight in what they would do or have done.
Just honest answers on what you think I should do please, I'm not after being judged for anything.
Thanks and sorry its so long.
I do not understand why the father was granted custody and you were allowed to keep the oldest two.
They would have taken the oldest two if you were neglectful or abusive, so I am not sure how he got the other two from you.
Regardless, when he got custody why were you not awarded visitation?
If you were awarded visitation, why has your lawyer not gone after the father for interference with visitation?
I would never leave my children. I realize that you have a family to look after, but the children left behind are part of that family.
Memories are what you make of them, and although being closer to family is comforting, it is not the same as being closer to your children.
It sounds like you are losing faith in the system and want to somehow move on to distance yourself from the pain of losing them.
That pain will stay with you no matter where you move.
You need to visit the lawyer and put a spark in his butt, or get a new lawyer who can get you into court and take action.
Best wishes
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