I have just counted the amount of times ive tried to pursue a romantic relationship with a girl and since the age of 11 to now, im 28! Ive been rejected approx 15 times and have never had a proper girlfriend! I have since a young age daydreamed of having a girlfriend who is my best friend and beautiful and my lover who loves me too. Its getting to the point where i dont really believe it will happen anymore. I havent had any action of any type with a girl for atleast 3 years. Once when i was 21 i fell in love with a girl(when i still believed) she was my best friend and returned my feelings, i lost my virginity to her and was on cloud 9 for a month then she just became horrible and difficult to get on with. She refused to be my girlfriend as she was always in relationships her whole life. I opened up and trusted her and said i could wait my life for her. Though she said she didnt want me to. Then she started dating a footballer from college and i was devastated, really heartbroken, we had words and we werent friends anymore we stopped talking, it ended badly and i felt id lost my best friend, like a piece of me was missing. Since then ive had a few more rejections but i didnt love them. I want a family and stuff aswell but think im too old now. My little bro is married with a kid, my mum and dad keep on at me that im wasting my life. All my friends are settling down and i havent even started dating. They think im a weirdo now whereas 4 years ago i was really popular, i know they talk about me. This only started to bother me when i turned 24, until then i believed it would happen someday. Im a nice guy but women just dont give me a chance, i find myself attracted to girls in their late teens now and im starting to go bald. Ive always struggled with my weight and keep putting everything off until i can lose 60lbs, part of me feels i shouldnt have to but i only find attractive girls attractive, so it goes both ways i guess, i want a g/friend im attracted to not just anyone, i want someone who gives me butterflys like before, but old eating habits die hard. I keep reading confidence is the key but how do i get it when i feel so low? Thnx
there's no age in loving.. do not date a girl or court them if you dont love them cause you will end up nothing.. Just be patient cause the right one for you will come . whether your old or not you could still feel love just wait
but if no one comes [thats impossible]
Hi Juronimo, you have a situation I experienced around the age of 22yrs. I dated a few different people within a one year period [all unsuitable to me personality wise and no chemistry]. The couple of guys I was interested in were either beer guzzlers/football players/womanisers and steered clear KNOWING would not be my Mr Right/soulmate at the time.
I clearly recall 20yrs ago being unhappy work wise and my lovelife non-existent. So, I started saying a prayer daily [night time] that God, Our Lady and Jesus would send along a great job my way if I kept volunteering to work of a night in a detox centre for alcohol and drug addicts [voluntary job] as I stated. I worked in my rotten day job for the next couple of months. Something told me to put in for a transfer which I did. Told there was no work and transfer wouldnt come through. That week I received a transfer AND met my husband of 20yrs. And had two beautiful children.
I met him in a dirty hole ridden carpark with him buying a machinery battery in town and my car battery went flat in which he charged it up.
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Battery on the wedding cake? Yep! Imitation admittingly. LOL..love comes at a time and place where one least expects it...and it is God I have to thank for my two beautiful children today Jeronimo.
By the way..the alcohol and drug detox voluntary work came in handy 20yrs later as I have assisted many teenage kids with alcohol and drug issues and most parents kids dabble in it today so I guess God was kind of planting the seed 20 yrs ago in my mind when I did some suggestive bargaining LOL
In summary, I would join a group of some sort to meet and help people, pray daily for what you need in your life: love/your soulmate, happy marriage, children etc, and wait for God to perform this: be patient you are only 28yrs old. Most girls and guys are settling down later in life anyway, but still young enough to have children.
thats confusing...um..dont loose your confidence thats all i have to say..be happy, laugh more, eat less, do exercise, be fit and you will get your right one soon...hope i helped
Dude u wrote to much detail i am not reading all of that
One thing: you are NOT too old.
I work in a magazine, and some women here are 30 and unmarried!!!
You don't have to settle at a particular age of your life like everyone says.
I feel sorry for you tho... rejection is hard.
You MUST meet girls. The more girls you meet, the more opportunities there are for 'potentials'.
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Plz take time to read detail! How do i get confidence back after constant romantic rejection?