okay, so i have been with my boyfriend for about 9 months or so . he is my first bf, first everything. im 19 btw .... i really feel like i love him .. but i get upset by alot of the things that he does ... for ex: he doesn't seem to care too much about my feelings SOMETIMES ... i feel like inside he gets tiredddddd of my wayz, but i talked to him about it and he just denys it and we fix it temporary. anyways he also still looks at other girls's myspaces and looks at this one girls pictures all the time . i know hes not cheating but that botehrs me and makes me feel upset . i dont know what to do . ive talked to him about it but i always feel like deep down he doesnt want me? i love him though and im scared if i break up w/ him i wont find anyone else, ill regret it or something .. idk and like overall he is a great respectful guy but he has these phases where he just DOESNT cCARE. what is that about . anyways please help me True Abortion Stories::
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Having "phases" of not caring, lots of pics of girls on My Space, and several other things that you mentioned are all issues that should tell you to move on. The guy is very self-serving and after all the discussing you try with him, it doesn't matter. Stop exhausting yourself emotionally. He's not going to be any different. Best to tell him that you feel the relationship has ended and you don't have any bad feelings towards him, but it's time to move on. Best of luck.
A respectful guy wouldn't go on other girls myspaces when he knows it upsets you.
Dont be another pone of those girls who stays with an "ok" guy just because she never feels like she'll get anyone better.
You deserve a man who will love, honor and cherish you... if you start to see yourself as a woman who deserves that kind of love, either your man will start giving it to you, or you'll realize that there IS someone better out there for you.
Best of luck, sweetie.
your first true love is in most cases not your first true love..
I know that probably does not make a whole lot of sense to you at the moment, what can quite easily happen in your first relationship(s) is you get caught up in all the excitement and wonderment that is wooshing feelings throughout your body at 100 miles per hour and your not too sure how to react (its ok, your normal)
you are convinced that your relationship should be better, well your off to a good start on your behalf, you have already learnt the number 1 rule in relationships - you mentioned you talk to him, communication is one of the most powerful keys you will hold in a relationship.
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you mentioned that 'if you break up you wont find anyone else' looking at it through my eyes, its not ok to be with him if he gets tired of your ways, he should be in acceptance of who/what you are, he SHOULD care about your feelings and love you for you.
Enjoy your life, live it to your fullest capacity and love will find you..
be sure to fall in love and not with the idea of being in love
break him!
He doesn't deserve someone like u!
He deserves a stupid gal lyk him!..
Well, your 19 now and if you break up you will never ever find another boyfriend. You would just be alone and desperate until you were really old like 22 and die of old age.
In fact should you really have a bf at 19 thats wayyyyyyyyyyyyzzz
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Sorry, I couldnt resist.
If your not happy talk to him.
If that does not work, dump him.
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i am a bit older than you but i remember being 19 and that is when I started dating. YOur boyfriend wants space. I think he is not ready to be serious. Break up with him before he does it to you because he is giving you all the signs. It happened to me and i would have prefered to be the one to break up. You will frind someone else.
BREAK UP WITH HIM. I'm telling you it will solve all your problems. I had a relationship and it was the exact same way. Yeah, it hurts and sucks a lot at times but it made me stronger cause he's out of my life not putting me through stress & confusion everyday anymore.. I'm sorry it's just what you have to do..
guys r dat..dey can only cheat.....4get him...
4get guys i shud say...theyre not worth trusting!
If I were you I'd be wary about being involved with someone who doesn't care at times, and keeps stalking the same girl on a website... those are not good qualities for a man to have...
It sounds to me like he has a case of the wondering eye, I think he's thinking of replacing you with one of the girls online.
He knows that you love him so he is taking you for granted.
I know its hard for you to just give up.
But try to ignore him a little bit and pretend as if you don't care either. Give him some hard time.
i was the same way with my ex, when i wanted to end the relationship i wasn't sure how to, so i became distant until finally she got to the point she couldn't do it anymore, i don't know if this is what your guy is trying to do, make you break up with him so he doesn't feel horrible, only advice i can give you, you get one life why be miserable? your 19 your not going to be single, be confident and you'll find the right guy!
I think you need to sit down and talk to him
he cheated!
get over him, and breakup with him
girl you know you can do better then that.
he doesnt love u...he just wanna have fun
You my sweet are in love with the idea of being loved and there is nothing wrong with that unless of course it prevents you from actually recieving that love. He sounds like a jerk and you deserve to be treated like a princess. Therefore tell him to hit the road and gather your strength and find someone that will treat you like a princess and then make you their queen.
You know what? Relationships need trust and you are definitely not showing trust in your bf. What is wrong when he views other girls' my spaces? He's just being a young man. Instead of you being paranoid, why don't you show him more affection. Don't try to expect something in return because this will really upset you when he doesn't. Men do not know what women are thinking of. If you want something from him, say so and don't play the guessing game. If you love him that much....just show him and try not to be a nagging girlfriend or you'll end up a nagging wife. I;m sure he cares for you a lot!
You should break up with him. if you spend all of your time upset with him what is the use of being with him anyway? A guy who really cares about you will care about you all the time - not just in phases. If he really cared about you & respected you he wouldn't be checking out any other girls on what amounts to a meat market website (& let's face it - that's what MySpace has become) - & especially if he keeps going back to one girl in particular. There are different types of cheating & if he knows this bothers you & he keeps on doing it, he cares little enough to take that last physical step to cheating.
If you really loved him, by the way, your biggest fear wouldn't be that you wouldn't be able to find someone else. Dump this guy & take a chance. That's the only way you're ever going to find the person who is right for you (& the right guy will respect you - not just put up with what you call "your ways."). A first love is always hard to get over, but moving on is the best thing you could do for yourself - never settle for second best. You deserve better than that.
Good luck & check back if you need help - I went through the same thing at your age & believe me, I found MUCH better!
 What is sexual tension? Is this it?
 What does he want? does he want me for when he is bored or because he really likes me?
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