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I have no problem with Maria's lifestyle. It is hers to live. But Jane should wait until divorced before she acts on this.
Jane's 4 yo is having MAJOR problems at school and is probably going to get kicked out of school soon. They call Jane almost every day and ask her to come get him. They have mentioned on more than one occasion that his behavior needs to improve drastically SOON.
I feel like Maria is "preying" on Jane who is emotionally weak right now because of her marriage.
So, what to do? Stay out of it? Talk with Jane? I think talking with Maria would do no good because she has a statement on her myspace page saying she "just wants to love the one she loves" and that others should "Butt out".
They have NO idea I feel this way or know anything.
It's none of your business. MYOB
It is really not your business, and you could lose both friends if you speak out.
However-------If you really feel the need to say something, talk to Jane about her marriage and how things are going. Tell her about the "rumor" and what you saw on MySpace and ask her if she feels it is fair to be avoiding the problem at home, and complicating things by starting a new one. Don't tell her what to do, because it is her decision, but you can give her some things to think about without being too pushy. Management:: File Format: PDF/Adobe Acrobat - View as HTMLYour browser may not have a PDF reader available. Google recommends visiting our text version of this document.Mobile Command Post set up to establish communications and coordinate movement of MMOB. OPNR. UPNS. Discount. Refund. Fire Management Notes http://www.fs.fed.us/fire/fmt/fmt_pdfs/046_01.pdfHOME | SheSource.org :: The Online Resource of Women Experts for Journalists:: As part of SheSource.org's committment to providing journalists with female experts who can speak to the most up-to-the-minute news stories, http://www.shesource.org/shesource/election.phpHOME |
You're obviously a caring friend, and though your intentions may be good, you have to be careful.
The message you want to convey is that you care about them, especially about Jane and her kid. Don't confront her by saying things like "what you're doing is wrong" or diss her new relationship. Instead, focus on the positive side, telling her that you want her to be happy but because you care so much for her, you fear that it may be too soon for her to jump into another relationship, and that her kid needs the attention right now.
You cannot try to change her mind, just have to tell her that you're there as a friend and that she can count on you.
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