HELP i am not gay but my freind is and i think he is coming on to me
Set him straight about you not being gay.
I don't think he si coming on to you. You are probably just insecure and paranoid about it.
just ignore his advances..chances are he isnt coming onto u and ur just being paranoid...dont do anything unless he actually trys something
Don't jump the gun here. Wait for him to acutally say or do something before you shoot him down. He might be new at this too and really struggling here, so, don't jump on him (so to speak) LOL!!
If and when he does make a move, tell him that you are flattered, but that your friendship with him is important to you and thats as far as it goes. Tell him he is "barking up the wrong tree," and that you will never see him as anything but just a friend and you would appreciate it if he never bring it up again.
What you are doing here is really laying down your boundaries around the issue. Stay true to yourself - stay honest with him.
Good Luck
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Just tell him the you are not gay, and do not want to get involved with anything sexual with him.
dont flatter yourself ... maybe you just want him
Then you need to make it clear that you are not that way inclined. Have a chat and say something like. Dont you think Britney is looking hot these days or "cor look at the ...oobs on her". That'll soon tell him without being blunt. Gay marriage?::
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Talk to him about it, if you are uncomfortable then he should respect you and your friendship enough to stop those behaviors.
don't harm him, just because you don't feel emotion (not saying you don't) doesn't mean he doesn't, wait for him to ask, that is critical. otherwise you could really injure your friendship, and if he does come out, let him know in a nice way, don't explode at him don't laugh, those type of actions could really affect him physiologically. but let him down easy, if he wants to change the subject let him, but to just cut him off is harsh, so chose your words carefully. Cafferty File: Tell Jack how you really feel Blog Archive - Pres. Bush ::
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if you are right then you will find money on the floor when he is around. Do not bend over and pick it up! Also keep a cork up your but> when he is around just in case!
kiss him
be straight with him (literally) he will understand .
i'm sure your friend knows your preferences and wouldn't bother. but if for some reason he doesn't, just tell him you don't swing that way, you will never swing that way, and he doesn't have a chance in hell. then change the topic. you can do this over drinks if you prefer.
Be gentle but firm and tell him that you are not gay and he should look elsewhere.
Just be clear. Tell him that the only that you want is a good friend.
Tell him you are flattered, and point out the fact that you are heterosexual but would like to remain friends, if that what You want to do.
Good Luck
You should pick your friends more prudently.
There can never be friendship where there is sexual attraction. This is why straight blokes can never be friends of bent blokes or straight women.
If what you say is right and your "friend" is getting sleazy it's time to get rid of him.
And don't be nice or diplomatic about it - he doesn't deserve anything other than a right hook followed by a profound kicking.
So whats the big issue here? just tell your friend that you are not gay and therefor don't fancy him, simple as that. What would you do if it was a female that you didn't fancy, you would just tell her no, so your mate is no different, he's a human being too.
If you're not sure, don't do anything. You could just be getting yourself worked up out of paranoia.
If he does make an advance, tell him gently that it's not what you want. That's it. I'm sure he'll get it!
Then just tell him, as a friend, that you're not interested in him. it's the best you can do.
Well, ask him, "Hey, do have any feelings for me as...more than just a friend?" If he answers "Yes", and you are truly uncomfortable with this and cannot return his feelings, explain that you really care for him as a friend but you just don't see him that way.
If he says no, answer, "Well, sometimes the way you act makes me feel like you do. It might be silly, but it makes me a little uncomfortable, 'cause I don't think of you that way. Could you kind of tone it down a bit?"
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I have as freind who is gay and i think he is coming on to me what do i do ?