I Ride Trolley:: Serves all the attractions along International Drive. http://www.iridetrolley.com/HOME | I've been seeing this girl (my work colleague) for past 2 years. Last 6 months have been turbulant. We lost tempers on each other. She decided to breakup and then I realised her importance. I aplogised some 1000 times on sms/calls. She's become comfortable with another guy in the our office only I don't know whether it's friendship or an affair. I really wish to be back with her. I've had the happiest times of my life with her.
If she has really found another bf, it is hard to get her back. Otherwise, just be yourself and just be a good friend without interfering with her. She might come back then. Chasing her will not do any good.
what will be will be..approach her and find out if she is still interested in getting back with you...if her answer is in the affirmative, then you know u av something to work on...if not u just av to move on...u cant kill yourself over someone who does not want u...
You had some happy time with her.Now leave her alone. You cannot compel somebody to love you.If she really loved you she will come back. Otherwise, be happy that she is happy. There are so many lovely girls. Iam sure you will meet one someday. National World War I Museum - The National World War One Museum :: On December 2, 2006, the expanded National World War I Museum opened the window to an extraordinary emotional and intellectual experience. http://www.libertymemorialmuseum.org/HOME | Hawk-I Healthy and Well Kids in Iowa:: What health plans are offered? How much do I pay? Do my kids qualify? What services can my kids get? How can I keep my kids healthy? How do I apply? http://www.hawk-i.org/HOME |
Sounds to me like you "had" the happiest times with her. They're now in the past. Look to the future.
Well if she really loved you, she wouldn't be with that other guy. It would hurt her too much to be apart from you. Just let her go, if she really cares about you she would come back or it would all work out in the end. Try to move on
Sounds like she has moved on hun, sorry about that, maybe you should too!
You are not telling the whole story.
Were you continuously mean to her, saying things that you couldn't take back, thinking that, you could just be cruel over and over and she would stay and put up with it?
There are real reasons you two were bickering in the first place. When issues go unresolved for a long time, they will continue to flare up on a grand scale. Think putting a bandaide on the San Andreas fault line. You know an earthquake will happen, but you put a tiny bandage on it, close your eyes hoping it will not erupt again.
Taking someone for granted can do a job on their psyche and your relationship because it alienates the partner and they feel like there is no point in going on as anything that they try to do or say never seems to be good enough.
The other thing is, she works with you and that can't be a comfortable situation when you see her all the time now and she has someone else!
You could find it a challenge to see her getting attention with someone new. Maybe the grass is greener is what you see, but without resolving thoses issues, the relationship would only go back to its old disfunctional state.
It's better to let it go and move on. If it's meant to be, you two will work things out.
People break up, its part of life
My husband dated this girl for 3 years in highschool and he thought he would never get over it. for 15 years he kept looking for a girl just like her, which is why he wouldnt date me, We just stayed friends for 10 of those years that i knew him. I wanted more though. he moved away for 2 years and when he emailed me, things changed. We both grew up actually and then we got married and both have a great life together. I am just saying. You will not even think abut her in a few months or years and marry someone else completely. Dont fret on one girl too much cause you will miss out on another great person. IWon:: Portal and search engine that gives away cash prizes daily, monthly, and yearly. http://www.iwon.com/HOME | TRIPLE-I '08:: Triple-I Website. The TRIPLE-I Conference series is a joint venture of the conferences I-KNOW, I-MEDIA and I-SEMANTICS. TRIPLE-I reflects the increasing http://triple-i.tugraz.at/HOME |
If you've apologized 1,000 times and she is still not back with you then, it is time to realize you've lost her. Simply thank her for all the joy she brought into your heart and let her know you'll happily leave room in your heart for her. I'm sorry but, after that many apologies you're probably starting to scare her more than anything.
u have lost her due to ur stupid mistakes plz let her live her life now................................
my friend that is the life and if you love her you must respect her .........and find another life there's one waiting you.....
Try romancing her and bringing back what you all had and enjoyed together, still some times the problems that caused the blowup unless they can be resolved then she will not want to give it another try. You have to let her see that you realized that you didn't realize before how much that she meant until you lost her.
Tell her how you feel, and ask her how she feels. If she doesn't have any feelings for you respect her and her feelings. But at least she knows how you feel.. Why would you want to be with someone that didn't love you just as much as you loved them. American Rhetoric: Martin Luther King, Jr. - I Have a Dream:: Full text and video and audio of Martin Luther King's I Have A Dream speech. http://www.americanrhetoric.com/speeches/mlkihaveadream.htmHOME |
Wimp.
Apologized 1000 times. Pffft.....that's real 'manly'. Someone who is masculine would admit the error of their ways and tell her you've realized a lot about yourself and ask for forgiveness. If she blows you off you'd move on.
Only spineless, wormy, sniveling crybabies who have no nuts between their legs would apologize a thousand times and whimper about asking for forgiveness.
No wonder she's eyeballing someone else. Probably because he's a man and not a boy.
Live and Learn
Let her know what you feel.
There is a great website I know of that maybe able to help. It's a support group on the web. www.dailystrength.com.
I hope this helps. There are a number of support groups on this site.
If it's meant to be it will. Good Luck!
Move on. You realized her worth too late, and perhaps you will take care in the future.
You lost and became the loser.
OK, if you grovel (as you already have) she's going to squeeze your gonads until there's nothing left of them. Find another girl in the office and start dating her - the one you want will then get jealous and want you back.
Lesson learned then I guess... the next time you are lucky enough to be able to share your life with someone maybe you will realize their importance before they leave you.
I'm sorry you are hurting, I won't insult you with platitudes about time making things better... but take some time to re-group. Obsessing about her possible relationships with other men will only drive you crazy. Could be that she is not really over you anyway and so is flirting with a man at your office, where you will see, to make you jealous. Smile and nod, and tell her you are hurt but that you wish her well. Stop SMSing and calling her. It's what she is after... she wants you to grovel because she's angry that it took her breaking up with you for you to see how important she really is.
Good luck
dont apologize on those ways... try flowers and a note or maybe try leaving a box of chocolates and a note on her desk.
hi do not think about her semple be with another girl & she will come to no u r importance in her life & when in case comes to talk with u ,u should say no because for a simple thing there should not be any fight b/e two because u should lead a life for aloger time if there is fight in futuer that will be problem
You'll be fine! Of course you're not going to get over her so quickly because you shared so many good times together but you will, just give it time. She probably got over you quickly because she made herself. I was in a similar situaton not too long ago and I MADE MYSELF get over him by seeing other people immediatly. Yes, it still hurts at times but you have to remeber someone else will come along. And maybe, it's meant to be and you will work it out. Just give it some time. Everything will be okay.
'We lost tempers on each other. '
Do you really think it was love...... if you were fighting all the time.?
Try meeting girls........ who knows what happen next. I believe love not 1 sided .... so my friend move on...... .Good luck
well, life is all about learning. . we all make mistakes at one point... .I felt sorry for you..just move on with ur life with someone else.. Good luck!!!..
if shes happy with the new guy. you should let her go because if you love her you would want her to be happy no matter who shes with. but tell her how you feel before its to late.
if she is avoidin u ten y are u wastin ur time on her???avoid her she will b back to u..
Try to ask her out.Tell her again you really like her.Do something to make her happy.Use ur heart to touch her.cheer!!
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